If you love movies, mention (in detail) what attracts you the most to what films and why.As you curate followers on Twitter — depending on whom you follow and what you tweet, retweet and favorite — apply the same strategy to your Ok Cupid profile and usage.You’d be surprised, though, how many of my friends complain they can’t find someone on the site, and then when I say, “Well, have you messaged anyone? ” Although it may seem like “putting yourself out there” is different on an online dating site, that mindset won’t help you connect with anyone.Look at it as the same as "liking" a post on Facebook or retweeting on Twitter.
The more you fill out, the better able you are to present yourself. Likewise, you'll also seem more attractive to other users. Plus, the search tool on Ok Cupid, like all search tools, favors those with more information than those without.
When you message a person, actively ask about him or her.
Don't start interrogating, but it’s always a good idea to end on a question — most of the time, it guarantees a response.
Ok Cupid also now has a feature through which you can connect your Instagram profile, therefore upping the media you can attach to your profile.
Which words or terms do you respond to in someone’s profile? If you have a friend on Ok Cupid and you like the matches he or she is getting better than your own, what are they saying that you aren’t?